What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?
16.06.2025 05:05
dear wSG ; I miss most of my childhood as “” as a child, u are a clean state and lot can be written on it.
As a 3 or 4 year kid, I use to gaze at breasts of our female helpers. My mother knew child psychology.
but as adults we become prisoners of norms, values, ambiguous laws etc and “” all our creativity goes into Dustbin.
Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?
My parents believed in equality of human beings so the helpers in our life were our family members and I was raised and kissed etc by not so clean helpers and my parents always encouraged them not to feel bad about ur caste etc and these 2 children ( me plus my elder brother )are urs.
Dear friend, sorry for being immodest, but since I was a gifted child 👶, along with having civil servant parents, I had all the facilities at my disposal. Before the age of 10, I became almost sub junior champion in badminton 🏸, swimming, and 🏏 cricket.
Love u genuinely.
I don’t have energy please, to go in further details as a whole book of 200 pages can easily be written as it’s too amazing observations of Freud.
Trust me wsg, we as a whole family were too simple people and most people in those times were innocent , unlettered, rustic but in a positive way as they were child like.
u won’t believe I can easily recall my experiences when I was just 2 years old. I remember almost everything.
Why do so many people find Kakashi's character so appealing and inspirational?
But now, I m an introvert, have become unfit in society as people are too shallow and materialistic.
I hope u will fathom out from where I m coming from ?
Anal stage - derived pleasure by withholding and expelling faces. It’s a stage of toilet training as well. Inadequate toilet training leads to overly orderly or many OCD are also related.
How do I deal with autistic burnout/meltdown/shutdown when cooking?
Oedipus - means a sons sexual attraction towards mother.
Trust me people are jealous of Freud and 3 or 4 other great thinkers otherwise we would have found many extraordinary explanations of intriguing questions about human nature.
you tell me my friend, where do I find people who appreciate deep poetry or some play ; or who love clutter free life ( all want huge collection of everything )
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I don’t find people who are on the same page with me.
Trust me I m a huge fan of Freud as I have personally experienced all those things.
perhaps this is the reason; I m too sensitive, cry when some song is too good or some poetry, or some unbelievable dialogue etc
i love solitude and hardly talk for days.
Again I feel “ knowledge is not power, it’s a curse”
Freud gave concepts of “”Oedipus complex”” and Electra .
I would catch frogs, I will go in wild and play with birds, 🐜 ants , dogs, rabbits and in close observation of some helpers; I would even watch closely snakes etc
Oral stage - child derived pleasure by sucking nipples etc and those who are not properly breast fed , they get fixated at oral stage and as adults indulge in lots of eating, smoking, chew gums etc . I was breast fed for 3.6 years. Those who are long breast fed , grow up as good human beings as they develop trust for humanity. They also develop immunity against diseases etc
Right from my childhood, I had huge love for poor and I would always insist my parents to help them as much as they can.
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Electra means a daughters sexual attraction towards father.
My friend , i m too emotional but trust me I don’t fear anything, too stable and happy in my own company.
adolescent stage
i would bombard my parents with too many questions like why “ bhajno and sheela “ don’t wear better clothes; why baba Nihal Singh is so poor. He was the one who loved me madly.i still remember 7 more names but….?
you can say I was against inequality and a deep thinker as a child .
But my parents never discouraged me to do experiments as a child.
Not only this, I was too good in football and hockey . My dad had his residence, office and a swimming pool in his residential complex. Swimming pool used to get open for public only between 10 am to 7 pm or 8 pm. So we as a family would swim in clean water at night or early in morning.I still remember the the name of caretaker of pool which was Nanku and he really loved us all as my parents were too honest, humble and down to earth. My father suffered a lot because of his extreme honesty and his being against corruption of entire system but he never feared. U know pesticides and insecticide against crops were showered through a helicopter 🚁 and this helicopter used to get parked in my mother’s residence. It’s long ago and there use to be huge vacant areas. I as a kid, would take a ride of helicopter almost everyday initially but later it became too boring and I preferred playing than anything else plus studying.
You can not imagine in ur wildest dreams how much love I had for poor and farmers of our area.
Family is the first institution that kills all creativity as parents don’t allow the child to do whatever he or she likes.
“”yes, I don’t miss climbing tress, playing with mud, fighting with friends, teasing people etc as I was too naughty as a child and was an extrovert””
where are people who are extremely well read but don’t have a single book displayed in drawing room ?
“ where ignorance is a bliss it’s folly to be wise “ this situation happens with me all the time.
Now something very interesting and surprising.
latent stage
Further Freud has given 5 stages of personality development::
Trust me when we were filthy rich, I was ashamed of our affluence and my mother noticed this and always treated me with huge respect as if I m some saint.
“””death of creativity in family.”””
phallic stage - child experiences pleasure by fondling genitals.
My parents use to get transferred but our relationship with our childhood helpers always remained in tact .